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| I can't believe the mixed-messages our media-driven | | | | ...who are just flat out morons. Mama, if your man |
| society sends regarding today's topic. If you watch | | | | loves you, he loves you pregnant. When he tells you |
| daytime television or Lifetime Network (which I don't, | | | | that you are beautiful, will you please believe it? That's |
| whenever possible) you'll be hit with commercials | | | | his kid going on in there! In fact, some guys are turned |
| depicting some hot mommies doing their typical | | | | on by pregnant women in general, and there are Web |
| superhuman things, including dealing with several | | | | sites to prove it. |
| toddlers while looking good doing it. Then, watch | | | | If you look at scientific studies on how heterosexual |
| late-night television (which I also don't, whenever | | | | men and women become attracted to one another, it |
| possible) and you'll be hit with infomercials designed to | | | | often comes down to archetypal response to pointers |
| make women feel self-conscious about what | | | | of fertility. I mean, let's face it: sexual attraction, from |
| motherhood has done to their physical appearance. | | | | the natural aspect, comes down to procreation. S/he |
| Whatever. | | | | who is more fertile is more attractive. Fertility and |
| You know by now how I feel about what the media | | | | gene-pool quality (which is another topic altogether) are |
| has done to distort our concept of what really is | | | | what make us attractive to the opposite gender a lot |
| attractive to the opposite sex. So make no mistake | | | | of the time. So here it is-if you are a mom already, it |
| about it: Motherhood can be, and I would argue usually | | | | makes sense that your proven fertility is going to |
| is, very sexy. In just about every way. | | | | make you attractive to men. If you want to argue with |
| The low hanging fruit here (no, not that) is the rise of | | | | me on this, go for it, but I believe very strongly that this |
| MILFdom in recent years. If you are unfamiliar with the | | | | is the case. At the very least, men often are not |
| term look it up elsewhere, but for all intents and | | | | turned off by the physical effects of pregnancy like |
| purposes MILF = sexy mom. For some reason, and a | | | | many women somehow seem to believe. On top of all |
| good one, even younger guys have figured out that | | | | else, don't be surprised that many guys--if they are |
| Stacey's Mom Has Got It Going On. | | | | man enough to admit it-actually have no issue with the |
| That's no joke either. If you are a 35 year old woman | | | | stretch marks and any other evidence that you have |
| with an online profile, you might be getting "messages" | | | | been pregnant before. I personally believe that |
| from younguns who haven't even cleared college age | | | | caesarian scars are sexy. And I'm not weird. |
| yet. No, this isn't some weird (and recurring) software | | | | So is this only all about looking good? I really don't think |
| error. They're digging you. | | | | so. There is something about motherhood that |
| I have personally been out with several women in their | | | | changes a woman. Not all guys understand this |
| thirties who had daughters at a very young age. | | | | pragmatically, but many respond positively to such |
| These kids are now in high school. Each mama had a | | | | things-even if subconsciously. |
| story to tell when I asked if there's ever an issue when | | | | Everyone knows that confidence is a huge turn-on for |
| their daughters' little boy friends meet mom. One | | | | both genders. And moms tend to learn life's tough |
| woman even has a pact with her daughter that they | | | | lessons about responsibility. Especially single moms. |
| won't date anyone closer in age to the other than | | | | Any guy who wants to find an amazing woman--one |
| themselves. Hilarious, but true. | | | | with a confident attitude to take on the world |
| How about before a woman has even given | | | | with--should hang out with a single mom or two. 'Nuff |
| birth-during her pregnancy? Yeah ladies, we know...us | | | | said. |
| guys hear all the time how "fat, etc." you are getting. | | | | And, you know what? It might not hurt to add how |
| You feel disgusting. Well, you aren't. ESPECIALLY to | | | | fatherhood tends to be a turn on for women also, |
| the Dad. Now we aren't talking about man-boy I/Js | | | | especially...moms. Big surprise there, right? Have you |
| (Idiot/Jerks) here who either 1) are using a woman's | | | | ever noticed that moms and dads really tend to |
| pending new family commitment (and the fact that | | | | appreciate each other-even at the raw attraction |
| presumably she wouldn't dare leave him while in that | | | | level? Yeah, well, I'm a Dad...and I absolutely have. |
| "condition") as an excuse to throw down with every | | | | |